The Bucket List

Okay, I haven't seen the movie yet, but I get the general concept of The Bucket List. Basically, it's about two old guys who realize their time is running out and so they decide to fulfill their lifelong "to do" wish list. Things such as jumping out of an airplane and taking an African safari are on the agenda. So ever since I first saw the previews for this movie, it got me thinking about how we all need to live life in such a way that we don't just expect there will always be more time to get everything done. We all get complacent like that. I know I do. Ever since my brother died at a very young age (at 22), I have wanted to get on with the business of living life in a manner that embraces life to the fullest. My brother was that way towards the end and strangely enough, it was one his parting gifts to me in a heart-to-heart we had just months before his life was cut short. As a result, I probably seem a bit offbeat in some people's eyes. I've always looked at life through a movie lens...it can be as romantic and crazy as you want it to be...if you are willing to be that way yourself. Maybe that's why I have made some of the choices that I have. We don't live forever, so we need to enjoy this ride while we can.

So it is very ironic that my best friend calls to tell she wants to stop talking about doing things and start doing things. So in typical Shelley fashion, she sprung the idea of taking a Carribbean cruise with her down to Cozumel to swim with the dolphins...a major dream of mine! I was literally speechless, which is rare. Just that morning I had mentioned this goal to my husband and within the day my best friend in the world bestows this wonderful gift. I can't wait to go on this amazing adventure with my Shellers!

Hubby Time

So after a very long and tiring day for us both at work, hubby and I went out for a date to celebrate our 9 year dating anniversary. I had packed an overnight bag and sent the kids off with their grandma earlier, so we were all set for some alone time. Since we were both starving, we opted to eat somewhere nearby. So we went to this little sports bar and grill that was connected to a bowling alley. Yes, I'm easy to please and don't need the fancy stuff to have a good time. While we were waiting for our food, we both had some Coronas with a twist of lime to relax a little bit. On an empty stomach, it didn't take much to get a buzz on. I don't enjoy being drunk, so I know my limit pretty well by now. Anyhow, we both ordered a french dip and some potato skins for appetizers. I had two of those things and that coulda been my whole meal right there. They sure tasted good though...thank you Shelley for introducing me to yet another sinful yet delightful treat...:)

After we finished dinner, we walked next door to the adjoining bowling alley. We found out it was league night, so that was out of the question. Next, we drove a block or two (it was freezing outside) to a pool hall. We played about three rounds and I won two of them. That was actually a lotta fun for us both. Kevin indulged me for a bit longer and watched me play a game of Ms. Pac Man in their mini-arcade. It's my favorite video game from the early days of arcades. We were both feeling pretty tired at that point, so we went home. There were two beers left in the fridge (it's rare to have beer in our house) from new years, so we both had one. That last one strengthed my buzz. Hubby's headache had progressed to a migraine and he was battling a sore throat. His voice was scratchy, but oh he was so adorable and sweet right then. He opened the door for me to the car earlier that night. When he's chivalrous like that, I love him even more for the extra effort to court me. So then I got online to surf a bit while he watched the Sci Fi Channel. Both of us were suddenly hit with exhaustion and turned in early to sleep. How sad are we? We both said this morning how old we felt for ending the night so young. I've woken up with a slight headache of my own, but don't think I'll have any Coronas for awhile, they aren't good for a diet. I may've gained a half pound back yesterday, but I wouldn't change a thing 'cause I had a fabulous night out with hubby that was much needed. Nine years and counting!

Cloud Nine

The title sounded cute considering the milestone I'm celebrating today. Hubby and I have been together for nine whole years, married for almost six. My MIL offered to keep the kids overnight tomorrow (Friday) so that we could have a night out alone. It's rare when we get a date night, so we're nabbing it, especially for this occasion. Those near and dear to us, know what an incredibly rocky road it has been, but I am grateful for all of it as it has helped shape me for the better in many ways. I am stronger and more patient then ever. Hubby challenges me and loves me at the same time. In a nutshell, we were together for about a year when I got pregnant with our son. Instead of breaking up or rushing off to elope in Vegas (which we almost did), we opted to let time take its course naturally. We didn't want to live according to anyone else's agenda and decided that if and when we got married, it would be because it was right for us. So about 2 and 1/2 years later, Hubby and tied the knot in a beautiful service at a rustic old church. So today I dedicate this blog to the love of my life and the bane of my existence (our affectionate references), Kevin. After all this time, the spark is still alive and better than ever. Even with the obstacles, love certainly worked its magic for us. As my favorite poet, Robert Frost, wrote..."we took a road less traveled and that has made all the difference."

Concrete Angel

Okay, two blogs in one day...doin pretty good on the writing front I guess. My last entry was pretty lighthearted and fun. This one isn't so much. As is the standard for most blogs, I write whatever is on my mind at the time. So I was watching various videos on youtube and came across an old song by Martina McBride called "Concrete Angel." It had been awhile since I'd last listened to it and I'd forgotten just how sad the content truly was until I saw the video for it. If you've ever had a child or even simply loved a child, you won't be able to watch it without a tear by the end of it. It makes you wanna hug your own children close to your heart and thank your lucky stars for them. There is an old saying that I forget who it's by, but it goes something like this..."So often we worry about who a child will become that we forget that they are already somebody today." Love 'em and treat 'em like gold is what we should do. Here is the link for the video clip if you wanna see the video for yourself.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZLwwy-g2wkc

"And her dreams give her wings and she flies to a place where she's loved..."

Boy, is it getting hot in here!

Okay, dare I confess that certain celebrity men get me all hot and bothered? Or is that just too much information? Well, it's my blog so I choose to share...:) I've thought about devoting a blog to the hotties of the entertainment world for some time now, but just never got around to it. Now I'm not talking about every Johnny-come-lately. I'm referring to the ones that just glance and make their fans melt. I do not claim to be writing a Pulitzer Prize-winning entry here. Nope, it's just a little ode to some lovely men of industry. My personal choices are eclectic to be sure, but some dear friends share these same thoughts so peruse the mini-gallery below and enjoy!

Will Smith...OMG! A man just doesn't get any better than the former fresh prince. His charisma, charm, sense of humor, and rock hard body are more than enough to raise the temperature of any room he's in or burn up any silver screen he's on. What really sets him apart is the simple fact of how devoted he is to his wife and family. That alone makes him incredibly sexy!

Tim McGraw...Does Faith have any idea just how lucky she is? I mean does it really seem fair that she literally has it all? Honestly, there is nary a woman alive that doesn't find this man fine. He rocks with his stage presence and melts many a heart with his gifted voice and amazing songs. It doesn't hurt that he has a derriere that just makes a girl go mmmmmm.

Matthew McConaughey...Those abs, that hair, his eyes, and oh hell yeah that voice! Thankfully, there is more to this adonis than just eye candy...the boy can act. That sexy southern twang gets me everytime. Though you just can't get away from that body of his. He knows what he has and works it to the hilt. Whether he is going for the clean-shaven, all-American boy look or the scruffy, scraggly vagabond...either way he wears it well.

Viggo Mortenson...He is an unlikely choice, but he just does something to me everytime he's onscreen. For me, it is the intensity of his voice and that piercing gaze in his eyes. When he played Aragorn in LOTR trilogy, he really sealed his fate as a leading man. Of all the men I've listed here, he perhaps has the most raw dramatic talent. He can morph into characters like a chameleon can change its colors.

Keith Urban...Okay, I will admit right here that I tend to go for the more rugged-looking guys, so a five o'clock shadow is never a problem for me. While this country crooner is very easy on the eyes and is married to a very beautiful woman in her own right (Nicole Kidman), I believe that it's his vocal chops that make him so sexy. He is an awesome songwriter and has such a gentle delivery that is so endearing. I can't get enough of his music and love just about everything he puts out there.

Brad Pitt...What hottie list would be complete without the epitome of male beauty? He is lucky to have the kind of look that just gets better with time. He started out as the ultimate pinup, but in recent years he has broadened his appeal through his humanitarian efforts. His leading lady has had a positive influence on his soul and that has only enhanced his sex appeal. Though he is very talented in the acting department, he is blessed with a voice that undresses a woman simply by speaking. Okay, enough already! We all know he's hot.

Yes, I know I know...there are many more out there. These are just the initial guys that came to mind and I have to get going. If you have suggestions, feel free to leave a comment and scold me for omitting other hotties that may've slipped my mind. Shallow, yes? Waste of time, I don't think so. Oh well...it's just a blog, don't overanalyze it, just enjoy it...:) Hi ho hi ho, it's off to Costco I go!

A New Addition

With all the hills and valleys I've experienced over the last few years and even in the last months, I must say that I received some news this week that threw me for another loop, but it a good way. It has has been a long time coming though. My parents have been locked in a custody dispute over my one of my nephews in recent years. To resolve this issue, all parties agreed to a special arrangement. My parents have officially adopted my nephew, Tyler. I am so glad for him to finally have some stability in his life. It is bittersweet news as it makes me sad to think of the things he has had to endure to find the home all kids are entitled to. He has always been more like a little brother to me anyway, but now I can actually say it and mean it. We always laugh when we get together and I love that about him. Though I must admit that it felt a little odd when my mom mentioned that I was no longer the only girl (the story of my sister is a whole other blog) and now am no longer the baby of the family. Both were a part of my family identity since birth, but both of those things have changed considerably. I couldn't be happier for my nephew/lil brother, but part of me wishes he never had to walk this path. Those of you who know me well, know the story. I don't want to rehash it all here in this blog, but suffice it say that I am thrilled for Tyler and my parents. He is a very special young man and deserves every happiness. He has a huge place in my heart.

Weekly doins

Well, I survived the first week back to school. It felt longer than usual since I had grown accustomed to being at home. In my down time, I had a little too much time to let my mind wander, but it was good to feel very rested. Though being back to work has been good for me and has kept me very busy. I can never complain of being bored, that's for sure since there is always something more to be done. I enjoy teaching very much, but I must say that I am grateful for the weekends. Dealing with 24 eleven-year olds can get to be a bit much after awhile. Though they are fairly independent for the most part. Part of me keeps wondering if I should go back for my middle school endorsement in English and Social Studies so that I can specialize. High school seems like it would be a bit too much to take on, but I will keep at what I'm doing at the elementary level for now and just see what happens in the coming months.

This weekend was interesting. I took the kids over to the home of some good friends, Brian and Rosie, to spend some quality time. I also got to see another dear friend, Mo, for the first time in almost six months! Hubby opted to stay home and hang out with a friend of his. I wished he had come with me, but it was a fun evening nonetheless. Rosie, Mo, and I got to play cards and it felt like old times. Poor Brian was outnumbered by the amount of estrogen in the room, but he eventually joined in for a game of Monopoly. The kids and I look forward to Saturdays as it is the one day of the week where we get to hang out with good friends. Sundays are usually our family days or just a time to catch up on home projects. My daughter and I made a trip to Costco and shared a churro. We don't often get to spend just girl time alone. I better get off the computer now. She's asking me to read a book, so hope all who read this enjoy their week. Take care!

All good things...

...must come to an end, eh? Well, that's what's happening today. My winter break is officially over after today. Maybe it's not the end of good things, but rather just a change in what those good things will be. It's back to school and the daily grind of teaching 6th grade. I woke up this morning and began to immediately worry over how I was going to teach all the geography concepts in the format we currently have. There are a lot of little things that I had planned to do over the vacation, but just couldn't bring myself to even stress over them. My best guess is that I had been needing this time out for so badly due to all long hours leading up to it, that I just collapsed. I know that it didn't help me get ahead, but I'll just have to prioritize really well. At least my heart and mind are feeling less cluttered.

It has been an interesting winter break to say the least. We kept really busy with holiday activities and spending time with family and friends. The highlight of the last two weeks had to be the joint decision hubby and I made to focus on losing weight together. We are both feeling very focused. This is a remarkable thing for my hubby, so I want to support him all the way. I want to lost about 15-20 more pounds, which should take me down to 125-130. Crossing my fingers that we'll both have the will power to maintain this goal, but if we keep our ultimate goal in sight it should happen. I am very proud of my hubby for working so hard. Well, that's it for today. Gotta go to bed at a decent hour for once so I can get the kids off to school and childcare. I'll miss staying up late and sleeping in...:( It's back to going to bed early and up before the sun rises...:)

SVU

I think we all have a show that we get addicted to. Well, my current obsession is Law and Order: SVU. It is a show I relate to in many ways for reasons I don't wish to disclose here. My husband thinks it is too depressing to watch. While I'll concede that the subject matter is often sad, it has so many great things about it. It might be a morbid fascination to a certain extent, but I truly love this show. The cast is pretty awesome too. The lead detectives in particular, Olivia and Elliot are great to watch. There is this chemistry between them that is intense. It goes deeper than just a physcial attraction for them, they seem to really connect on every level. They go through crazy and dangerous stuff day in and day out on the job, so they are bound to be close. I doubt they will ever truly hook up or that could ruin that "what if" scenario that so many shows utilize. Anyhow, it's an addictive hour of television that I look forward to each week. I am thankful to cable so I can catch up on the early episodes that I never saw.

A Passionate Life

This first day of the new year kind of threw me for a loop. It is always a time for renewal as we say goodbye to the old and embrace the new. I got to thinking that there are certain things that we all need in life. I'm not talking about the basic necessities like food, water, and shelter. I am referring to the things inside of us that make us pulse with energy and feel truly alive. And I am not talking about simply breathing. For some, it is the need for an adrenaline rush. Those are the people that take risks or maybe participate in extreme sports. For some, it is intellectual stimulation. Those are the people that might read a lot or seek out higher education. For some, it is spirituality. Those are the people that find comfort in their faith and believe in a higher power. For some it is ambition, that need to succeed. Those are the people that are very career savvy and maybe climb the corporate ladder. For some it is artistic expression, that something that ignites a creative spark within. For some, it is the family stone. Those are the ties that bind them to their loved ones and keep them close to home. For some it is passion, that desire to connect with someone on every level, whether it is with the heart or the body. Whatever it is that you need in your life, it is best to take steps to make sure that you have what you need to thrive. For me, I need a variety of the things mentioned, though I don't want to climb any corporate ladders. However, I do love to read, must have a creative outlet, am finding my faith, couldn't live without my family, and passion is certainly something I crave. Most of all, I just need love in my life...that is what makes it all worth living.

Ringin in the New Year

Happy New Year! Well, here we are in 2008 already. It seems like just yesterday when the millenium crept up on us. We had a fabulous New Year's Eve ourselves. Hubby, the kids, and I spent the evening with some great friends at their home. We enjoyed good music, good finger foods, and great company. The children got to play and watch tons of movies, while the adults played games...though hubby and his buddy Brian played the computer kind while Rosie and I played the card kind...:) For those of you who know me well, you know that I rarely drink. Not so much because I dislike it and such, but simply because I don't really have an opportunity to do so. I'm not big on alchohol in general, but will knock back a Corona or two (with lime). If I'm gonna have hard licquor, the taste must be disguised by a fruity drink of some kind. Yep, I'm a wimp, gotta have my tooty fruity drinks that way. Anyhow, I digress...to sum up...we had a wonderful time hanging out with friends as we watched the ball drop in time square. These same friends will be coming over to our place today to spend more quality time which is nice. The great thing about winter break is that we can do more of what we want when we want.

I did enjoy this past year for the most part. It was crazy busy to say the least. In fact, instead of recapping the high points, I'm gonna borrow an idea from my best friend's blog. She took the first sentence from the first entry of each month to form one paragraph. I doubt it will make much sense taken out of context, but here goes...

Alright, I will finally adhere to common sense and turn in early. I entered the classroom today and got quite the surprise. Last night, as I grew bored with the results show on American Idol, I channel-surfed and landed on PBS. (Blog Title: Blow it out your glass)...Kinda catchy I thought...:) Okay, there have been a slew of frivolous lawsuits filed over the years.
It always feels good to get away, even if only for a little while. Whew! This week was a true whirlwind of events and emotions. I just finished reading my best friend's blog, lawfrogtx.blogspot.com, and came to an intersting realization. Alright, it's not quite Doomsday, but that's how it feels at least. I am starting to feel the drain on my energy. So I got the kids all dressed up for Halloween this year. Well, it's been so long since my last post that I just don't even know where to begin.

So that is the year in a nutshell...not so much, eh? It doesn't exactly put the year in review, but that's okay. I know what happened and if you really care that much about my year, you can always look back over my archives. Anyhow, I want to wish everyone an excellent new year and may all your wishes come true. Happy 2008!!!